Admirers and Chasers- You suck (Parts 1 and 2)

Yes, I know that sometimes I ramble and sometimes I am a little ditzy. It is probably why I have somewhat of a nickname of “charming ass”. It was pointed out to me that in my last video Teen Diaries 6, that people may misinterpret my meaning when I said that it wasn’t okay to be gay.

I love gay men, honestly I do; in fact I received the warmest welcome from a group of gay men on my transgender cruise last year. My brother even asked on Thanksgiving, “wouldn’t it be easier just to be gay.” And I responded, I wish I were gay, oh god how I wish I were gay.

When I said that, I was actually speaking directly to admirers and chasers. And if you are transgender and don’t know what I mean by either of those terms you probably will pretty quickly. My dislike for this group of people has grown steadily over the past two years until it has become full blown disdain.

I wish it wasn’t like that, I don’t like to dislike anyone for their sexual preference BUT… here is the thing, I have said this many times over the course of the last year, I am getting the surgery. Let me put that in layman’s terms for all you admirers, “I am getting it hacked off with a knife and then surgically altered to have a vagina.”

Okay Admirer’s, so you see me post this, you hear me say this and still you come to me and say, “I want to be gay with you.” Can anyone else see how this could offend a transgender woman who has seen themselves as a woman all their life? Just saying you want to be gay with me is telling me. YOU SEE ME AS A MAN.

I also understand that not everyone gets the chance to meet a trans woman and because of this misunderstandings can happen but here is the thing, This is a fetish for these people; wouldn’t you think before they jumped into a fetish that involves another human being they would do a little research first?

Basically what I am saying is, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. And to follow that up I would love to give these creepy admirer’s a bit of advice. There is nothing wrong with you having a fetish but let’s be honest for a second, you are looking for a little bit of down-low action. You want to be gay and not gay at the same time which is an impossibility and as soon as you come to terms with that the sooner you can make your fantasy come true BECAUSE

There are a few men out there that would love to put on a dress for you and let you…well, you know…and if you are looking for something more I think there are quite a few different groups that might be open to your gayness. Bi-gendered, gender queer, drag queens, even some transvestites might be interested but…

Trust me on this though, someone that has plans to rid themselves of that lifelong birth defect that they have hated since birth is not someone you want to go up to and ask if they will let you, well you know…

Well, after that mess I think I might have to apologize for something else I said; wait, what was the point of this video?

Oh, I am sorry….Admirers…but you still suck

Once again, this is Kendra Chelsea checking in. Have a good Saturday because I am going to.

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